Saturday, March 11, 2006

Well...



She said no.


17 Comments:

Blogger ll121 recalled...

Really sorry to hear that, but I can't say I'm that surprised. You're asking her to do a lot before she is actually ready for it. I just hope that this hasn't messed up what little relationship with her you already have. I can't say I'm surprised you did what you did though. You gotta be yourself, and there's nothing wrong with that. You'll find someone that appreciates it.

Saturday, March 11, 2006 11:57:00 PM  
Blogger True recalled...

It will be alright X. Is it too corny to say, it's not you it's her. Hopefully the closure helps.

Sunday, March 12, 2006 5:51:00 AM  
Blogger PrincessMax recalled...

I don't think it matters if it messes up what little relationship you have.

Roxanne sounds like a beautiful, wonderful girl X. But there are other beautiful, wonderful girls out there. And if some of the not-so-subtle comments of some of your female readership are any indicator, some of these beautiful, wonderful girls could see the beautiful, wonderful things in you that Roxanne used to see.

Feel good that you did a thing that the quiet-lives-of-desperation people do not have the courage to do: ask the hardest question with almost no assurance that you would not be hurt. But hurt is a clean cut that will heal. your unceertainty with Roxanne never would.

Sunday, March 12, 2006 6:48:00 AM  
Blogger HotDudi recalled...

Not ready!?! Didn't u say this thing had been going on for like 17 years!?!

If she's not ready to just drop everything after what u said...she's a fool!

I don't know any guys who'd b willing to b that honest...it's a shame there aren't more like u out there. Even tho u've made mistakes, ur prepared to say ur sorry & promise to try ur hardest not to make the same mistakes again...

U deserve better than to b someone she can pick up & drop whenever she's going through a rough patch with her partner...

Easier said than done...but move on with ur life...u deserve someone who can really love u for who u r & not just when it's convenient.

Rant over!

Sunday, March 12, 2006 8:02:00 AM  
Blogger Jamy recalled...

Aww, I'm sorry. Perhaps it's better to know? Take care.

Sunday, March 12, 2006 8:19:00 AM  
Blogger Moon Watcher recalled...

Girls are really bad for leading guys on when they need a little pick me up.. a little, reassure me that a part of you likes me so I feel better even though I have no intention of following through.
Girls are bitches like that. I don't do that now, but I'd be lying if I said I hadn't in the past. Fortunately I'm at a point where I don't need to get my pick me ups by leading someone on.

Sunday, March 12, 2006 8:53:00 AM  
Blogger Mint Tulip recalled...

At least she gave you a straight answer, so your reply to her did it's job, even if it's not a happy one. Now maybe you can move on knowing that she's made her decision. And I agree with princessmax, there are other girls out there and not all of them will try to play stupid games.

Sunday, March 12, 2006 9:12:00 AM  
Blogger jkrunning--Just Keep Running recalled...

Well, at least you now know, and you can move on..

Sunday, March 12, 2006 9:32:00 AM  
Blogger Empress recalled...

Now you can move on, X. And I'm glad she finally had the guts to tell you once and for all. Now there's no more games she can play with you.

You'll be fine, as I'm sure you're well aware of. Immurse yourself in your project, get her out of your system as much as possible, and know that out there is THE woman for you.

Sunday, March 12, 2006 11:33:00 AM  
Blogger Charlotte recalled...

well, she's dumb, she's passing up something great.

Sunday, March 12, 2006 1:41:00 PM  
Blogger ~Moi~ recalled...

Im sorry to hear that. I agree with everyone else when we say now you have closure and you can move on. Not that it is that easy. Sometimes not having an answer is worse than hearing a no. Hope you are doing ok.

Sunday, March 12, 2006 2:31:00 PM  
Blogger Jaded&Opinionated recalled...

Like others have said... now there's no "what if" anymore. Let her go, and move on. It's hard to face the future when you're tied too tightly to the past.

Sunday, March 12, 2006 2:33:00 PM  
Blogger Gidget Bones recalled...

Pull out the rubberband! And snap away!

Sunday, March 12, 2006 6:26:00 PM  
Blogger d recalled...

I'm truly sorry...

Monday, March 13, 2006 12:10:00 PM  
Blogger Glitzy recalled...

I'm assuming she said no to this I told her that she knew how I felt about her, and that I knew the worst mistake of my life was letting her go, and that I've paid for it every single day since, but if she ever saw fit to trust me & give me another chance, then I would never let her down again. She has no good reason to have any faith in me, but I asked her if she did anyway.

If that's the case, why is she telling you what she's telling you? If she was truly happy with her life, she wouldn't be e-mailing you on the sly. She'd be doing it out in the open and the gf would have to accept it or leave.

Monday, March 13, 2006 2:41:00 PM  
Blogger Atomicslacker recalled...

Women. Can't live with, pass the beer nuts.

Sorry it didn't work out. You're a good man for trying.

Monday, March 13, 2006 3:42:00 PM  
Blogger ExBF recalled...

Well...ok, it's not quite as simple as that; I started to respond here, but it turned into a whole new post, so....read.

Monday, March 13, 2006 4:12:00 PM  

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