Well...
She said no.
Saturday, March 11, 2006
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13 Comments:
It will be alright X. Is it too corny to say, it's not you it's her. Hopefully the closure helps.
I don't think it matters if it messes up what little relationship you have.
Roxanne sounds like a beautiful, wonderful girl X. But there are other beautiful, wonderful girls out there. And if some of the not-so-subtle comments of some of your female readership are any indicator, some of these beautiful, wonderful girls could see the beautiful, wonderful things in you that Roxanne used to see.
Feel good that you did a thing that the quiet-lives-of-desperation people do not have the courage to do: ask the hardest question with almost no assurance that you would not be hurt. But hurt is a clean cut that will heal. your unceertainty with Roxanne never would.
Not ready!?! Didn't u say this thing had been going on for like 17 years!?!
If she's not ready to just drop everything after what u said...she's a fool!
I don't know any guys who'd b willing to b that honest...it's a shame there aren't more like u out there. Even tho u've made mistakes, ur prepared to say ur sorry & promise to try ur hardest not to make the same mistakes again...
U deserve better than to b someone she can pick up & drop whenever she's going through a rough patch with her partner...
Easier said than done...but move on with ur life...u deserve someone who can really love u for who u r & not just when it's convenient.
Rant over!
Aww, I'm sorry. Perhaps it's better to know? Take care.
Girls are really bad for leading guys on when they need a little pick me up.. a little, reassure me that a part of you likes me so I feel better even though I have no intention of following through.
Girls are bitches like that. I don't do that now, but I'd be lying if I said I hadn't in the past. Fortunately I'm at a point where I don't need to get my pick me ups by leading someone on.
Well, at least you now know, and you can move on..
Im sorry to hear that. I agree with everyone else when we say now you have closure and you can move on. Not that it is that easy. Sometimes not having an answer is worse than hearing a no. Hope you are doing ok.
Like others have said... now there's no "what if" anymore. Let her go, and move on. It's hard to face the future when you're tied too tightly to the past.
Pull out the rubberband! And snap away!
I'm truly sorry...
I'm assuming she said no to this I told her that she knew how I felt about her, and that I knew the worst mistake of my life was letting her go, and that I've paid for it every single day since, but if she ever saw fit to trust me & give me another chance, then I would never let her down again. She has no good reason to have any faith in me, but I asked her if she did anyway.
If that's the case, why is she telling you what she's telling you? If she was truly happy with her life, she wouldn't be e-mailing you on the sly. She'd be doing it out in the open and the gf would have to accept it or leave.
Women. Can't live with, pass the beer nuts.
Sorry it didn't work out. You're a good man for trying.
Well...ok, it's not quite as simple as that; I started to respond here, but it turned into a whole new post, so....read.
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